Welcome!
I’m Eve Dyer.

Do you struggle to speak up during an argument?

Do you please others to avoid conflict or rejection?

Do you seek approval instead of making your own decisions…or feel wounded by hurtful treatment but don’t know how to prevent it?

If you answered ‘Yes’ to any of these, you’re in the right place!

As a clinical psychologist in private practice for 20 years (now retired), I’ve assisted over 1,000 women and men to heal their emotional wounds and vulnerabilities, strengthen their personal power, and transform their lives. Empowered, they challenged people who manipulated, restricted, or harmed them, whether in the home, their workplace, or the community.

Witnessing these women and men achieve enduring change, inspired me to write my book:

Ignite Your Power:

Unmasking the Five Faces of Anger

How empowered are you?

Do you seek approval instead of making your own decisions?
Do you please others to avoid conflict and rejection?
Do you struggle to speak up during an argument?
Do you feel wounded by hurtful treatment but don’t know how to prevent it?

If you answered ‘Yes’ to any of these, you can strengthen your personal power and transform your life!

You can have freedom from fear, anxiety and self-doubt!
You can build resilient self-belief in yourself and your rights!
You will be able to confidently speak up and challenge mistreatment!
You can stay strong and assertive during conflict!

If so, this website and my book, Ignite Your Power,
reveals how you can make lasting changes in yourself and your life.

Ignite Your Power:

Unmasking the Five Faces of Anger

was written to empower you to live the life you want!

Ignite Your Power Front Book Cover
Di Fingleton
Former Chief Magistrate of Queensland
(an extract from my book’s Foreword)

It is a rare individual who has not experienced feelings of anger, either within themselves or as victims of anger inflicted by others. If like me, you have been the victim of anger that left you disempowered by depression, anxiety, and in other ways emotionally damaged, this book is for you.

Eve’s book offers a path to understanding the five faces of anger and ways to re-ignite our personal power. Eve does not leave us merely in a state of ‘Ah-hah, that was why that happened.” She, through various case studies, states the problem and leads us through the methods she has used to help patients overcome their fears and self-doubts.

Eve clearly sets out the ways to self-empowerment and the joy of self-realisation for women who had suffered from brutal treatment in varying degrees from their partners/husbands. Her book is also a textbook for other therapists in clearly defining the importance of understanding Anger as a sometimes fatal undertone to human relationships.

T. Mackie

Eve Dyer’s book is a wonderful read. A great resource for those that have experienced the wrath of Destructive or Narcissistic anger in their relationships, as well the people who work with them.
A large portion of my job is working with women who have been in abusive relationships. I found myself using lessons I had learned in the book during my discussions with these women on a daily basis.

A narcissist’s viewpoint, in Chapter 24, I feel is a brilliant stand-alone part of the book. Even taken out of context of the rest of the book, it still provides a very short and distinct reality check for those experiencing the unfairness of dealing with those that use Narcissistic anger.

My personal favourite parts of the book are the short one-liners at the end of every few pages. They are very easy to remember and carry around in your head during the day, almost as affirmations to keep you on track.
If you want to unlearn the habitual responses you use in situations where you feel unable to speak up for yourself, this book shows you, step-by-step, how to re-train yourself to respond effectively and assertively so that your message is heard.

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